About Dr. Bola

Bridging Faith and Psychology in Parenting

The Journey Behind the Book

Dr. Bola Meletoyitan

The Turning Point: After welcoming my second child, I found myself caught between two worlds—the clinical knowledge I'd gained as a developmental psychologist and the beautiful chaos of real family life. Here I was, someone who understood child development theory, yet struggling with the same questions every parent faces: How do I raise children who are both deeply rooted in faith and prepared for the modern world?

The Journey: Twenty years ago, I started as a high school teacher, already writing and searching for ways to truly connect with young minds. That passion followed me through college classrooms and eventually led me to pursue my PhD—which I completed after my fourth child was born. Through sleepless nights and scholarly research, I discovered that the gap between "expert advice" and "parenting reality" was vast. Parents don't need another clinical manual; they need wisdom that honors both the sacred responsibility of raising children and the practical challenges of daily life.

The Balance: Every day, I navigate the delicate balance between nurturing and teaching, between giving guidance and allowing space for growth. I've learned that parenting isn't about perfect analysis of every moment—it's about creating an environment where children can flourish spiritually, emotionally, and practically. This book represents everything I wish I had known earlier: how to raise God-centered children who are equipped for whatever path He calls them to walk.

Why This Book Matters

"Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it" Proverbs 22:6

This beloved Scripture verse is well-known among Christians and beyond, but what does it mean in practical, everyday terms? How do we actually live this out in our modern world?

"Train Up A Child" bridges that gap between biblical wisdom and real-life parenting. As both a developmental psychologist and a mother of four, I provide a step-by-step guide for raising godly children that addresses the burning questions every parent faces.

Whether you're a parent, guardian, caretaker, or anyone who loves children, this book provides the practical insights and biblical foundation you need to make a lasting impact on the next generation.

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